two months ago i spend alot of money on a 50cc motorcycle and at college there is this annoying ginger kid who had a bike too, Everytime we finish lesson he always torments me to let him start my engine up which i always refuse. He also smacks my bike seat with some force as he passes it and today he grabbed my indicator and preteneded to snap it which now my indicator is slightly wobbly but i have no proof it was him. Its begginger to piss me off now considering i dont have alot of money and my dad saved for months to buy me the bike and he trusts me to keep it in good condition which i do i always clean it and am very protective about it. What should i do ive tried telling him to leave my scooter alone and he still refuses to.
Am i over reacting or is it right to ask him to leave my bike alone? Also i dont think the wobbly indicator is the one he touched when i thought about it properly but it still could be. To describe this kid to you he is very very annoying he p***** everyone off in my class the way he acts and always loves to touch people like putting them in a headlock or throwing them around. Ive tried loosing my temper with him about it but he just apoligises then he repeats his habits the next day.
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It so happens that bullying is frowned upon especially in school… the kid
needs a lesson in manners.. when he reaches out to mess with your bike…
You must first report him and make responsible adults aware that he is
damaging your property and bullying you… I have a prefered method, but
it is not acceptable…
its your sh** he has no right to touch it much less hit it. the easiest way to fix the solution(in my opinion) would be to leave a note on his bike asking his to grow up and keep his hands to himself, the world is not a gay pride march and people don’t like being touched by strangers… or tackle him and tell him not to fuck with your stuff or you’ll drop kick his bike…
No one should touch another person or their property without permission, period. He probably won’t learn that until he gets beat up. You could complain to the campus cops about vandalism but I doubt that they will do anything. If he’s doing this to girls, though, that’s a sexual harassment complaint and then they would definitely do something.
and this is college? the guy is over 18?
well if so, you see now he is breaking the law. whereas b4 he may have been doing the same things but was just a dumb kid and had parents to fall back on for legal responsibility and liability, he is now an adult and should be dealt with the same
you say you have shown you are angry with him, shown you are displeased, and told him you don’t want him touching your bike? the only other thing you could do is beat his ass, but that would only hurt you
so i say go to the cops on campus and tell them this guy is harassing you and messing with your property. ask another he annoys, touches, or puts in “a headlock” if they will go with you and file a small complaint. then the authorities will have a file on him, and you can keep reporting anymore trouble. they shouldn’t say “can’t you deal with him yourself,” because you have tried that. and physical violence on the guy is against the law. you see in high school behavior like this might cause him to have a fistfight. big deal. but in the real world it can get him a record that will follow him around for years. and if he keeps doing it, it just keeps getting worse
i am sure if you go to the powers that be on campus, and are persistent, sooner or later someone in the chain we have a word with him. these can be grounds for expulsion if he persists. it doesn’t have to be personal, but a good “we have received complaints about your behavior” sort of talk with him. and sure, you can be named specifically, but it helps if you have a few others standing with you, too. any repercussions from the guy, have him arrested and charged with harassment. and no, that is NOT overreacting. and you aren’t, either
also, if he actually damages your bike and witnesses are around, take him to court and sue him
man, i can’t stand people like this. if it were me, i’d just punch him out. good thing i’m past college
He’s a bully plain and simple. He won’t stop being a bully until someone beats a snot bubble out of him. Next time he touches your motorcycle break a piece off of him and set his motorcycle on fire. That ought to get the message across to him that his days of screwing around with you are over.
I HATE bullies! Any time I have the opportunity to put a bully in his place I do. As long as you allow this putz to bully you, he will. Until there’s a reason for him to change his ways he won’t.
Throw him on the ground and make him your b!tch. Then he’ll do what you tell him.
Many years ago, back when I was in high school, Dad told me “I don’t want you to start any fights. You can finish one if you need to.”
This kid sounds like one of the few I had to finish.
Quit accepting his “apology” – it obviously isn’t real.
Dude I’m real old school.If some one messed with my ride I’d just step up and rattle his grill.Reporting him the school authorities will get you only one thing, more of the same .It’s you property and you have a right to protect it.
Yeah, you sound like you need help. Don’t put up with his crap, kick his ass! Don’t bother “reporting him to the authorities,” if he messes with you put his ass on the ground.
Here is how I dealt with the last bully, I had to deal with. I took a can of lighter fluid filled with water, sprayed it on his legs. Then held up a lighter, saying to him, “I don’t like bullies and I don’t like you. If you are not out of my sight in five seconds, I am going to start you on fire.” Then I started to count to five, before I made it to three he was running as fast as he could away from me. I got away with it because, I had reported him a number of times and nothing was done about him. I told the cops that, they didn’t do anything to stop him, so I had to.
In 47 years of life, I have found that most bullies are cowards. Reporting them rarely works and some times makes them worse. Because bullies, often know how to work the system. They often know just how far, they can push you with out getting into to much trouble. Then if and or when you threaten them, they turn you in and you get in trouble. Once you have your paper work filed, you can often get away with a lot. File a report, every time he does something to you. Then if nothing is done about him, threaten him. Make it a real threat to, but not to real to get you in to much trouble.
Even though I only had water in that can, he didn’t know that. I showed the cops it was water, so it was just a threat not an attempt. I got off, with just an oral warning.
I’m not you, I look like some one who could set some one of fire. I am a biker, a patch holder in a non 1% club. 99% of the time people don’t screw with me, but every once in awhile someone just has to. You will have to sell to this person, just how pissed you really are. Once you do that and you will really, do some thing about it. He will back off and or, go away.
I was bullied from time to time, my parents moved alot, until the day I decided physical pain and a little trouble from school would be a hundred times better than the humiliation. I didn’t cop an attitude or try to act tough or aggressive, I just decided the next guy who messed with me it was gonna be a fists. And somehow I was never messed with again, people can sense that you will or won’t put up with shit.
My advice to you is to have it in your head that the next time he disrespects you it won’t mean words or looks, it will be a fist in his face. You may lose the fight, but he will go on to bother someone who will take his harassment without a fight.
Just tell him that if he touches your bike again (or even goes near it) you will punch his head in.
Of course, he won’t think that you will do it, so when he does touch it, grab him by the shirt and make his nose bleed with your forehead.
He will not bother you again.